I am having trouble finding anyone (besides that first dude) who even made the slightest mention of her being a lesbian woman. Actually, the only people that seem to be so fixated on her sex/gender are the one's defending her. Maybe you all have the hangups and overcompensate through--to quote real-estate magnate Stan Sitwell--your PC white-knightery?
EDIT: Just did a quick double check. And yeah, the fixation on her personal life is being perpetrated by the defenders. I have no horse in this race, but I just think that says something, when all of you get up in arms trying to out-PC one another, yet you're the ones making sure we all define her by her sex/gender. Ah, the cyclical nature of PC culture. The white elite making sure we're all following the rules they've put in place for us in the name of equality.