Posted 22 February 2013 - 01:52 PM
I think a good general rule is that dating other races is not racist--what's racist is excluding races from your dating pool. Whether it's because you are so blatantly racist as to think interracial dating is wrong, or you fetishize a particular race, or whatever, it's when you start thinking "I won't date race X" that it starts getting racist.
If you're proud of it, or you think about it too much, that is also kinda racist, although it depends on a lot of factors. To be honest, in our society it's almost impossible to date interracially without thinking about it because other racists have made it such an issue.