I totally relate to this caller from the wife's side. My husband and I have been together for 11 years,we have 2 kids. Most days I'm just exhausted, the toll pregnancy took on my body, my hormones have changed, the PTA, work and the emotional, physical and spiritual exhaustion of having children. Its a lot for anyone! Give her a vacay alone! She's probably just worn out, doesn't mean she doesn't love you or that she's not in love with you. Its the ebbs and flows of any marriage. This too shall pass, be extra nice and extra loving. Good luck, don't give up!