It's the guy who called in. A few points of clarification:
1.) My name is John, not Sean.
2.) I am currently dating a white lady hence the term "almost exclusively"
3.) The call was made outside of a bar, accounting for the noise. I had to make the call right away because I had been called racist for the exact thing I called in about.
4.) It may be a product of circumstance because I was born in Spanish Harlem, moved to Southern AZ, and then back to NYC in Alphabet City, so my exposure has been pretty consistent.
Thanks for taking my call and giving me some things to think about, I am not sure how many of your calls cause serious introspection on the behalf of the caller, but this one did.