This show means a lot to me. I've been going through a difficult time and I've been listening to the archives pretty much nonstop to feel better. I also read the Mary Sue which is where I heard about this. I usually am amused when they go after people that are accused of sexual abuse, but now I see the whole thing as sad and that maybe I should think twice about misery as entertainment. That lady is a person and Devin is a person. People are complex. It seems like he gave up something that means a lot to him because he was worried that he hurt someone. From what I read, she wished him well in the end. I wish him well too. But don't go anywhere, please.