Like Cameron.H said, I was not really being jealous and was more put off by the optics of it. I am lucky that my family and I are not in a bad financial situation right now but I know many that are not so lucky. I also not a big fan of seeing people waste money needlessly. You are right, its not really my business though and they can spend their money how they like. I just hope they consider looking into ways they can keep separate accounts but share purchases in the future(Like Apple, Google or Amazon family share). THen maybe throw that extra $20 over to a food bank.